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Dec 2025 / Jan 26
Dear Friends,
The festive season is here and at St Giles we are very much looking forward to welcoming our village community to the special services we have coming up. Before I was a vicar, I was once a ‘normal person’ exploring faith and going to church by myself for the first time. At this time, I had lots of questions about how to join in. So, if you’re thinking about trying church in the coming weeks, here is my attempt at answering some of the questions you might have…
What happens when I arrive at church?
Someone will be near the door to say hello to you, sometimes the vicar, or a member of the congregation. You can sit wherever you like in the main body of the church, except on the right next to the organ because that’s where the choir usually sit. All of the words are projected on our screen, so there are no hymn books or service sheets.
What do I do during the service?
Join in, in whatever way feels most comfortable to you. We usually stand to sing and sometimes for other parts of the service. You may prefer to sit throughout, and that is allowed! If in doubt, just do what those around you are doing. There’s no wrong way to join in.
What should I wear?
Clothes! Beyond that, anything you are comfortable in.
What about Café Church?
On the first Sunday of every month we gather together in the PMH from 10am for more informal worship over coffee and pastries, with craft and activities for all ages. This is simply church in a different location, and all of the above still applies.
Why should I come to church?
Good question – beyond coming to a carol service because it’s a nice Christmassy experience, at St Giles we hope that everyone who comes to church will know the love of God. At Christmas we remember that God loves us so much that he came to live among us, starting life as a small baby, just like the rest of us. The life of Jesus shows us how to live, and his death and resurrection takes away our sin and opens the way to eternal life. We are a community of people learning together about loving God and loving our village. You are welcome to join us this Christmas and every day.
With my prayers and best wishes,
Rev’d Christie