The Revd Writes… The wisemen set off from Benington. The journey would be long and hard. The lanes were treacherous at this time of year. Flooding was an ever-present threat, the mud underfoot slippery. Good wellies and a stout walking stick to help with balance were necessary. A hat, scarf and gloves gave some protection from the freezing wind and rain. In the dark one could easily lose one’s way. One of the wisemen had a map, another a compass and the third, a small flask of brandy. The latter for purely medicinal purposes - including keeping the chill out of the bones. Wisemen indeed. The Shepherds set off from Ardeley – Wood End to be precise. Like the sheep in the fields around, they were well wrapped in woollen fabric. Heavy overcoats to keep out the elements. They make people tough in this part of the world. Plain speaking and straight-forward, the Shepherds agreed to cut across the fields, following the tracks made by deer and badger. An owl hooted as they set off and could occasionally be heard all along their journey. A star appeared above Cottered. Both wisemen and shepherds noticed its rising in the northeast. There were pilgrims, from Throcking, heading south down the valley, and though the light from the star was sometimes shrouded in the cloud (and the rain), its light was sufficient to guide them across the stiles and over the footbridge that crossed the winterbourne. Eventually, the wisemen, and the shepherds, and the pilgrims, all gathered in Walkern. The star seemed to settle over the White Lion pub where there was much jollification taking place. A new family had recently moved into the village – a young couple with a baby. Everyone was celebrating the new arrival. One shepherd offered a woollen shawl as a gift for the baby. “New life brings hope, and hope keeps us warm,” he said, smiling at the young mum as she wrapped her baby in its new comfort blanket. “The best thing about this time of year,” said Harry, one of the wisemen, “is that it brings us all together. It might only be once a year but look here, we’ve got people from all the villages around.” “God works in wonderous and mysterious ways,” said an elderly lady from Throcking. “And there’s nothing like a brand-new baby to remind us all that life goes on despite everything else going on in the world.” “Let’s toast the new baby,” said Dave, the publican. “Here’s to new life, new hope and our all being together.” And everyone gave a hearty shout, “Cheers!” Happy Christmas God Bless Mark
Benefice Christmas Services St. Lawrence, Ardeley Sunday 7 December 4.00pm Christingle Service Sunday 14 December 4.00pm Christmas Carol Service Tuesday 16 December 5.00pm Ardeley School Carols by Candlelight Christmas Eve 4.00pm Crib Service 11.30pm Midnight Eucharist Christmas Day 9.30am Holy Communion St. Peter’s, Benington Tuesday 16 December 5.00pm Benington School Christingle Service Wednesday 17 December 2.00pm Benington School Carol Concert Friday 19 December 6.30pm Christmas Carol Service Christmas Eve 4.00pm Crib Service Christmas Day 11.00am Holy Communion St John the Baptist, Cottered Sunday 14 December 6.30pm Carol Service Christmas Eve 4.00pm Crib Service Christmas Day 11.00am Holy Communion St. Mary’s, Walkern Sunday 7 December 9.30am Christingle Service Sunday 21 December 6.00pm Service of Nine Lessons and Carols Thursday 18 December 10.00am Walkern School Christmas Service Christmas Eve 3.00pm Crib Service 11.30pm Midnight Eucharist Holy Trinity, Throcking Sunday 28 December 10.00am Benefice Communion Service
The Revd Writes… Many years ago, I was working in a psychiatric hospital, caring for patients being assessed for varying stages of dementia. The heartbreak for relatives, and for staff, of watching someone who had lived a full and vibrant life being slowly reduced to becoming dependent upon others for basic needs being met was a daily reminder of how fragile and vulnerable life is at its core. We come into the world being dependent upon others and for so many, often blessed with a long life, we leave the world in the same state. Being dependent upon others for caring for our bodily needs brings its challenges and equally, if not more so, are the demands of caring for sick and poorly minds. At times, surrounded by thirty confused adults, it was difficult to remember the lives once lived, the contributions to society once made, the capacity for loving and nurturing once given and shared. Relatives were asked to share a photograph of patients in the prime of their lives as a way of reminding staff of who the person they were caring for used to be. Leading trade unionists, military officers, academics and even a psychiatric nurse, who had once worked on the ward, adorned bedside cabinets. Many hours were spent with patients reminiscing about the ‘good old days’ in attempts to hold and recall vestiges of a distant life. Sadly, for many, this proved too much as the slow creep of frailty robbed minds of the ability to relate to anything beyond a few minutes, or even seconds. Occasionally there would be moments when, from deep within an almost abandoned consciousness, a stirring of awareness occurred, taking staff by surprise. I remember Mr Judd. Lost in a quagmire of confusion, unable to speak, with little facial expression, tears rolled down his cheeks on hearing the Last Post being broadcast from the Cenotaph. Inexplicably, he muttered one word, “terrible…” It was as if he was somehow managing to speak for others, who could no longer articulate, the pain of war, and sorrow for the Fallen. In a world of confusion, with its competing demands and narratives, and in which the self-absorbed often seems to dominate so much of life, there remains a collective responsibility to remember those who have sacrificed themselves for the basic freedoms that we so often take for granted. Those who gave their lives and who have lost the ability to speak, ask that we speak for them, and in doing so to remember the “terrible” cost, not just for the victims of past conflicts but for those who continue to pay the price of war in our own day. God Bless Mark
CHURCH OF ENGLANDSt Lawrence, Ardeley; St Peter’s, Benington; St John the Baptist, Cottered; Holy Trinity, Throcking and St Mary’s, WalkernChurch Services: November 2025Sunday 2nd 4th before Advent9.30am Holy Communion St Lawrence, Ardeley9.30am Morning Prayer St Mary’s, Walkern11.00am Morning Prayer St Peter’s, Benington11.00am Morning Prayer St John the Baptist, Cottered 3.00pm All Souls Commemoration St Mary’s, Walkern Service 4.00pm All Souls Commemoration St Lawrence, Ardeley ServiceSunday 9th Remembrance Sunday / 3rd before Advent9.45am Remembrance Service St Mary’s, Walkern10.50am Remembrance Service St Lawrence, Ardeley10.50am Remembrance Service St Peter’s, Benington10.50am Remembrance Service St John the Baptist, CotteredTuesday 11th Remembrance Day10.50am Remembrance Day Service St Peter’s, ChurchyardSunday 16th 2nd before Advent9.30am Holy Communion St Lawrence, Ardeley9.30am Morning Prayer St Mary’s, Walkern11.00am Holy Communion BCP St Peter’s, Benington11.00am Morning Prayer St John the Baptist, CotteredSunday 23rd Christ the King9.30am Family Service St Lawrence, Ardeley9.30am Holy Communion St Mary’s, Walkern11.00am Holy Communion Holy Trinity, ThrockingSunday 30th Advent 110.00am Benefice Service St John the Baptist, CotteredCoffee at Ten - WalkernCoffee is served every Thursday morning at Walkern United Reformed Church from 10.00am to 11.00am, with a five minute ‘Pause for Thought’ at 10.30am.
