Finding support for Domestic Abuse

If you are reading this it may be because something has happened to you, or is happening to you, and you are looking for support. Or you may be looking for support for someone close to you, or others who you believe are suffering.

There may be many reasons why you have not spoken out before. It can feel overwhelming and frightening, but it can also be the first step towards support, healing, and recovery. You are not to blame for what happened to you and there is support available.

It is your choice who you share your experience or concerns with. You will be heard and supported. Your concerns will be taken seriously, no matter how recent or long ago the abuse took place, or where it took place.

Within your local church or Parish, you may wish to speak to your Parish Safeguarding Officer or a member of the clergy. Details should be available on local websites and the Promoting a Safer Church posters within each Church.

In any situation, you can always contact the Diocesan Safeguarding Adviser (DSA) – Joanna Van Lachterop – 07458 016884 or [email protected].

If your concern relates to a Church Officer, please contact the DSA directly. There may be other occasions where someone may have a safeguarding concern but does not wish to discuss this in the parish context. If this is the case, the DSA can be contacted directly.

We recognize however that if you have a lived experience of abuse involving your relationship with the Church, you might want to talk initially to someone not connected to our diocese. In that case you can contact the independent helpline Safe Spaces that specializes in supporting church related victims and survivors of abuse.

They offer a helpline, a live web chat and website.

Tel: 0300 303 105, Monday – Friday 9.00am – 5.00pm, with late opening until 7pm on Tuesdays.

Email: [email protected] or visit the website:

Safe Spaces England and Wales – Safe Spaces England and Wales for further information.

If a child or adult is in immediate danger or requires medical attention, call the emergency services on 999.

Additional support can be found via the following help lines:

NSPCC Child Protection Helpline: 0808 800 5000 (lines free and open 24 hours). Phone if you are worried about a child and need advice or guidance on what to do.

Child-line: 0800 1111 (lines free and open 24 hours). Phone if you are a child or young person and are worried about anything.

National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247 (lines free and open 24 hours). Phone if you are experiencing domestic abuse or need help to report.

National Centre for Domestic Abuse provides a free, fast emergency injunction service to survivors of Domestic Abuse. 0800 970 2070 www.ncdv.org.uk

Women’s Aid provides services for women and children who have been affected by the experience of domestic violence, rape and sexual abuse.

0800 2000 247 www. womensaid.org.uk

Refuge is a National Charity which provides a wide range of specialist domestic violence services to women and children experiencing domestic violence

0800 2000247 www. refuge.org.uk

Samaritans Helpline: 116 123 (open 24 hours). Phone if you feel you are struggling to cope and need someone to talk to.

Action on Elder Abuse Helpline: 0808 808 8141 (free phone Monday to Friday 9-5pm)

Age UK Advice Line: 0800 678 1602

National Rape Crisis Helpline: 0808 802 9999 and is open every day from 12-2.30pm and 7-9.30pm.

The Survivors Trust: 0808 801 0818 and is open Monday to Wednesday 10-7.30pm, Thursday 10-6pm and Friday 10-2pm.

LGBT+ Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0800 999 5428

Men’s Advice Line: 0808 801 0327

Galop gives advice and support to LGBT people who have experienced hate crime, sexual violence and domestic abuse. 0800 999 5428

Modern Slavery: 08000 121 700