Scripture:
Then Peter came to Jesus and said, ‘Lord, if another member of the church sins against me, how often should I forgive? As many as seven times?’ Jesus said to him, ‘Not seven times, I tell you, but seventy times seven’. (Matthew 18.21-22)Reflection:
Rabbinic teaching stated that a man had a duty to forgive three times, but no more - as in the Three Strikes of American Law.Peter thought he was being very generous in suggesting forgiving somebody seven times, and must have felt rather deflated by Jesus’s answer. Obviously Jesus doesn’t mean keep count of the times people have offended you and give up after 490! He is saying that our whole lives must be lived in a spirit of forgiveness, modelling the loving forgiveness of God. It’s helpful to remember that just before Peter’s question Jesus had been speaking about dealing with grudges by talking to the person who has offended you and seeking a peaceful solution.
Forget about the 490, or even the seven, and commit to putting things right as you go along. It calls for patience and humility and won’t always be easy. But this is what, as Christians, we must aspire to.
Revd Rosemary