Scripture:

“…but no one can tame the tongue—a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless the Lord and Father, and with it we curse those who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this ought not to be so.” (James 3:8-10)

Reflection:

James doesn’t mince his words. His message in these verses is clear and doesn’t require a theological understanding of the time to decipher the meaning.

We know from our experiences as children how powerful and cruel words can be, ranging from bullying to verbal abuse. “Sticks and stones can break my bones but words can never hurt me.” Not the best advice really. And yet we can say the kindest things and make someone’s day by offering a small, unprompted compliment.

We think that we don’t hold any power to influence others, but I bet that you can remember something hurtful and something kind that was once said to you. We have the free will to choose what to do with this power. How can you use yours this week? Who will you inflict hurt upon, or who will you offer grace and kindness to?

Victoria Bray