Thought for the week - 23 February 2025

Picture this: a long-standing friendship or close family relationship suddenly breaks down. It might begin with a careless word or a misunderstanding, something trivial that grows into a wedge neither side can remove. Or it might not even be a dramatic fallout, just the daily challenges of living or working alongside someone whose presence grates on us. These are the moments that test our patience and stretch our willingness to forgive.


This is the reality Jesus addresses in today’s Gospel (Luke 6:27-38), where He offers one of the most challenging and transformative teachings of the Christian life: “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.” This is not passive endurance or sentimental love. It is active, self-giving love, a choice to break the cycle of animosity and reflect the mercy of God Himself.


We see this love in action in today’s First Reading (1 Samuel 26), where David spares the life of King Saul, despite being hunted by him. David’s mercy prefigures the love Jesus calls us to, a love that is not dependent on the worthiness of others but rooted in the faithfulness of God.


This same love is echoed in the Responsorial Psalm: “The Lord is compassion and love, slow to anger and rich in mercy.” God’s mercy meets us in our brokenness, not treating us as we deserve but lavishing grace upon us. And as St. Paul reminds us in the Second Reading (1 Corinthians 15:45-49), we are called to reflect the image of Christ, rising above the limitations of our earthly nature.


St. Augustine reminds us that this kind of love is only possible through grace: “Human effort alone cannot achieve it; we must abide in Christ.” This abiding in Christ requires an openness to being transformed by His mercy, not just as recipients but as vessels through which it flows to others.


When Jesus says, “Love your enemies,” He is not merely asking us to avoid conflict or be passive in the face of hostility. He is calling us to an intentional and radical response, to actively seek the good of the other, even when it feels undeserved. This challenges our natural instincts for self-preservation, pushing us to lean into the limitless love of God, who shows mercy to the just and unjust alike.


But what might this look like in our lives today? Consider the woman who had a falling-out with her brother following a family bereavement. For years, their relationship remained broken. Then one day, she sent him a simple note: “I miss you. Can we meet for coffee?” That small act of vulnerability began a journey of reconciliation.


Think of the teacher who patiently encourages a disruptive student, seeing potential where others see only problems. Or the family member who lovingly tends to a loved one with dementia, even as they grieve the loss of the person they once knew.

These acts of love, often unseen and un-thanked, reflect the self-giving love of Christ. They remind us that loving enables us to reflect God’s mercy. Such love may not erase pain or resolve every conflict, but it opens the door for God’s grace to transform our hearts.


In Rembrandt’s The Return of the Prodigal Son, the father’s embrace of his wayward son captures the essence of God’s mercy. But we might find ourselves more often in the shoes of the older son, arms crossed in resentment, feeling the unfairness of extending grace. Yet the father’s example calls us to step forward, to let go of our grudges, and to participate in the reconciling love of God.


The choice of the older son reflects the choice we face daily: to remain bound by bitterness or to step into the freedom of forgiveness. This freedom is not just for the other person, it is for ourselves. When we choose mercy, we can release the burden of resentment and allow God to work in us and through us.


But I want to say that mercy is not simply about sentiment; it is a way of being. In moments of tension, it can mean choosing silence instead of retaliation, a soft answer in place of an angry response. It may be as simple as holding back a harsh judgment or resisting the urge to gossip. These small decisions to mirror God’s mercy have the power to build peace, brick by brick, in our relationships and communities.


The mercy Jesus teaches is deeply countercultural, especially in a world that prizes strength and retaliation over humility and forgiveness. To love as God loves requires us to lay aside pride and self-interest. It asks us to trust that true strength lies in vulnerability, and true justice in mercy. St. John Chrysostom said, “When mercy is shown, heaven is opened.”

Ultimately, Jesus Himself is our model for this radical love. On the cross, He prayed for His executioners: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” This is the love that redeems the world, a love that transforms fear into trust and enmity into reconciliation.


This is not a love we can generate on our own. It is a love that flows from Christ, nourished in us through prayer, the sacraments, and a deepening relationship with Him. Each time we gather at the Eucharist, we are reminded of His ultimate act of self-giving love. We are invited not just to receive but to go forth and embody that same love in the world.


To love beyond measure is not easy, but it is possible when we open our hearts to grace. Perhaps it begins with a quiet decision to let go of a hurtful remark or a prayer for someone who frustrates us. Maybe it’s reaching out to repair a broken relationship, choosing kindness in the face of hostility, or helping someone without expecting thanks.


Even the smallest step toward mercy can be transformative. These moments, small and large, become the building blocks of a life lived in the image of Christ. They draw us deeper into His heart and align us with His Kingdom, where love triumphs over hate, and mercy over judgment.


Here at the Eucharist, we are nourished by Christ’s own sacrificial love. As He offers Himself to us, He equips us to embody His mercy in the world. The love we receive here strengthens us to go forth and live the Gospel, to love as He loves, without limits or conditions.


Let us leave our worship today not just as hearers of the Word but as doers, ready to reflect God’s compassion in our relationships, our community, and the world. May we strive to live the words of Jesus: “Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.”


Closing Prayer

Merciful Father,

You call us to love as You love,

without limits or conditions.

Strengthen us to forgive, to serve, and to bless,

even when it is difficult.

Transform our hearts,

that we may reflect the compassion of Your Son

and draw others into the abundance of Your grace.

We ask this through Christ our Lord. Amen.